Sunday, 9 February 2014

The final goodbye

Well this is it, we have finally come to the end of this blog.

It has been nearly 2 years since I started writing it and honestly it only feels like yesterday time has gone that quickly.

I am sure you will all agree there have been some interesting times mostly ones involving alcohol.

So for the very last time I will give you an update on everyone

Dana - Well she has gone through some relationships but we end her story exactly how we started it and that is with her being single. One day she will find her guy it just isn't meant to be right now.

Melissa - Off travelling the world. She will always be my inspiration when it comes to taking chances and following your dreams. Until we meet again carry on being amazing and stay safe. See you in Canada!

Olivia - Sailing around the world she also is living her dream. Fingers crossed when she gets to see the guy she likes again all will be perfect and they will fall happily in love if not then like the rest of us she will make the most of her life and not let being single keep her from doing what she wants to do.

Mr Wise - Tuesday he leaves to start his new life in Canada and I wish him all the best. He has been there for me throughout this whole blogs life and there isn't a person on this Earth who knows more about me than him. See you next year my friend!

And finally me - Soon I will be heading off on my travels and I cannot wait. I have had my ups and downs mostly involving the lovely Mr FWB but now it is time to pack up and move on. I am going off to find my Mr perfect where ever he may be.

Thank you everyone for reading this and giving me somewhere to rant and express myself. I really have enjoyed it and you have all been a great audiance.

Just remember, follow your dreams, take chances and most of all have one hell of a good time! Until we meet again!


Sunday, 2 February 2014

That sliding doors moment

Yesterday was Mr Wises leaving drinks session

It was very messy to say the least. We started at about 1:30 and by 8ish I was suitably drunk. It was a great gathering and it just proves that he will be missed so very much. Me above most will miss him a lot as he has been with me through all the thick and thin and too be honest there are not many people in this world I would call a true friend however he is one of them.

So the sliding doors moment. Mr FWB was at the leaving drinks and like always was being very flirty and suggestive to me. I resisted the best I could however I tend to lose sense when I am drunk and it doesn't take much for me to be swayed into doing naughty things.

Anyway he left the event about 5 mins before I did however we were both catching a train home. Now I knew if I got on that train with him the night would end in the same way it always did and with me regretting things in the morning.

So I walked up to the train station still not deciding whether I wanted to get on the train or not and when I got there it was sat in the station waiting to leave. I had two choices get on the train and end up back at square one or stand by and watch the doors close.

I watched the doors close!

I hope you all had a great weekend - I know I certainly did and for once without any regrets


Thursday, 30 January 2014

Woo hooooooooo

I'm booked! That's right people I finally did it.

My flights to Australia are booked and I really am going. Eeeeeek! It is strange after all this time to think I have actually done it. It seems like only yesterday I made the decision to go and that must have been about 1 and a half years ago.

I have also handed in my notice at work. That is really scary as I have worked there for 9 years and I have pretty much never been unemployed since I left school.

I am super excited though and know I have made the right decision. The envious comments from people tell me I am doing the right thing. One thing I don't want to be is one of those people who wishes she had.

So my message to anyone reading this. Do not just think you can, actually do. You will be far happier in life knowing you followed your dreams


Monday, 27 January 2014


So I had it all planned out. I was going to write this great ending post where I talked about all the people who had played a part in my blog and how their lives had changed and then BAM Dana hits me with it.

Her and the boyfriend have broken up. And to say it wasn't amicable would be an understatement. Basically it turns out Dana was not the only lady on his mind. There was about 4 other women.

Not only was the dirty dog cheating on her but he was actually dating one of these women making her think she was the only one too!

How he got away with it I will never know as Dana was with him on Christmas day so where did this other woman think he was?!

Just another reason why I am glad I am single. I won't be forever but for now it makes me super happy I don't have to put up with all that rubbish!


Monday, 20 January 2014

Woo hoo Melissa is home!

So guys I have had a bit of a nightmare with trying to write this blog recently. Firstly annoying work has been getting in the way. I have been doing stupid hours and not getting any time to myself.

Secondly the hotel I have been staying in does not have Wi-Fi in the room so I cannot even write this at night when I do get a bit of time to myself.

I have now resorted to using Mr Wise again to post as my computer does not like to let me do it myself.

Anyway now I have gotten all that out of the way I can start with my post. Melissa is home, yay! I am getting to see her tonight and I cannot wait. I am not sure how long she is going to get to stay with me for but we are going to make the most of it. I think it is only a couple of days as she wants to find work quickly but I am sure we will reunite again before I leave.

Speaking of leaving can I just say eeeeek! It is getting so close now. I am going to book my flight this week and once that happens it is signed and sealed! I really haven’t thought about planning but I need to start something soon. The one thing I am worrying about – how on Earth am I going to fit 2 years of clothes into one bag!

Anyway hope you have all had a good weekend. I have had to work boo. I am sure they will reward me in the end (yeah right)


Wednesday, 8 January 2014

The end is near!

So people this wll be my 195th post on this blog and I have decided that post 200 will in fact be my last one :-(

I need to put the past 2 years finally behind me and what better way to end it than on the 200th post.

Don't worry though we still have 5 posts to go and I will try and make them as juicy as possible. That obviously means I need to do some juicy things. Oh its a hard life.

So as I said - the end is near, but I am not ready to quit this completely just yet :-)


Saturday, 4 January 2014

Time for an update

I thought it was time I did a little update on everyone in the group as I haven't done one for quite a while.

Well first up there is Olivia, now I really can't remember the last thing I wrote about her so I am sorry if I end up repeating myself.

So Olivia has been working on cruise ships for a little while now however before she left to do that the naughty minx had herself a little bit of fun with someone else staying in the same hostel as her. As luck would have it though the poor girl has fallen head over heels for this guy however now they have both been sperated by the sea. Fingers crossed they get to meet up again soon as she really does like him. How it would work out with then both being the other sides of the world to each other is anyones guess but I wish her all the luck!

Next there is Dana. Well what can I really say about her. She is still with the same guy she was with the last time I wrote about her and all seems to be good but I can't help thinking that she isn't getting any younger and maybe it was about time she did something about progressing the relationship. She is also being stalked by her cousins husband which always makes for good emails and texts. Lord knows what is what is going to happen there.

Finally there is Melissa. Well exciting news about her, she is coming back to the UK in 11 days. Yay! I wonder if she will meet up with any of her old conquests when she is here. Think she is back for about 6 months however obviously I will not be around for all that time. I am sure we can get ourselves into trouble somehow anyway :o)

I think that is all I need to cover off. Obviously if I suddenly remember anything amazing or if their situations change at all you guys will be the first ones to know!